But, I’ve been thinking a lot about southern manners lately. A lot of people will try and tell you that chivalry is dead. Well, not in the south, my friend, and certainly not in Kentucky. These are the ones I’ve kept close to heart:
· Don’t treat others the way you expect to be treated: Treat them better than that.
· When in doubt, write a thank you note.
· “That’s a very interesting opinion.”
· Every restaurant table should be its own island of conversation.
· You cannot have two quality conversations at once; put away the cell phone.
· That said, return phone calls (and invitations!) in a timely manner.
· Medication should be taken in private; if necessary, excuse yourself to the restroom.
· Welcome new-comers promptly– at the office, to the neighborhood, etc.
· Always ask, never tell- “Will you please hand me the salt?” NOT “Please hand me the salt.”
· When going to a dinner at someone’s home, be sure to bring something- even if it’s just cute cocktail napkins.
· Be humble- when accepting praise or speaking of an accomplishment. Be sure to ask others about themselves, rather than talking about yourself.
· Pull over to the side of the road when a funeral procession passes.
· Nothing says, “I appreciate you” like a homemade baked good.
· Ladies order first, exit the elevator first, go through the doorway first, and walk on the “inside” of the sidewalk.
· The “half-rise” when a lady leaves or returns to the dinner table, never goes out of style.
· When someone is ill, has a new baby, or moves homes, an offer to prepare and bring over a meal is always appropriate.
· Following that, the food should be sent in disposable containers, so not to provide any dishes that need cleaning or returning.
Stay Glossy,
Kentucky Blonde
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